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JAN-22-07
14:9:32
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Forum: Christian Singles Member Surveys
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Submitted Anonymously
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In regards to "Submitted Anonymously"
and posts from "samanthajones" and "others"
in point to "some members seem uppity and do not reply....."
I CANNOT answer for ANYone else
other then MYSELF...
This thread / forum "caught my eye",
and for the best of me..
I just cannot figure what people
don't understand..
Why ANYone thinks that ANYone else
owes them anything..
A "response is something someone GIVES"..
NOT something one can demand, expect, or require..
My response: -----
In order for me to even OPEN
an email at / from this site it
MUST meet certain requirements..
The emails I WILL NOT even bother
to open, but instead delete immediately
without reading or noting content are
the following type:
1.) Spam / advertisement, "form mail", etc.
2.) Mail from senders NOT from MY area.
3.) Mail from senders who's profile I feel
(with a "quick glance") I arbitrarily
deem "I am NOT their type" or that
"they are not MY type"...
4.) Mail from senders seeking "friends", "pals",
"giving advice", etc..
5.) Mail from sender with no photo, minimum
profile, bad grammar, lack of participation, etc.
(able to utilize a computer -access the internet..
compost a bare bones profile.. purposely
leave out data, and leave one "guessing"
are all "red flags" the denote "TROUBLE" )
Those that can.. they DO...
Those whom cannot or will not...
they have "excuse" why...
i.e.
"don't have a pic"
"did not understand"
"do not know how"..
etc., etc., etc.,
A valid "reason"..
is STILL an "excuse" of
why one does not "do"..
I am NOT here seeking "friends", "chit-chat" or "discussion".
I AM here seeking my mate, equal, and partner..
From almost THIRTY years in military service
I have learned to trust and LISTEN to
FIRST impressions AND my "gut instinct"..
Doing that HAS kept me alive for this long,
and convinced me of "our intuitions"..
I neither claim that I am always correct..
or that this is "politically correct"..
I am only STATING MY "way of doing things"..
Yours may be different...
If upon receipt of mail I do not have
my "curiosity perked"...
I DELETE without opening or reading.
As I am not getting any "cuter", younger,
"quicker", or "more patient".....
I find that my tolerance for "friendly chit-chat"
is at a bare minimum...
YOU may do, feel and think differently..
and you may not agree with me..
be that so..
then DON'T email and or answer me..!!
The truth, ..???
I care NOT what ANYone feels,
thinks, or believes...
YOU are here for YOUR reasons..
I am here for MINE..
Don't be angered..
accept that maybe YOU are NOT always correct..
(that may be why YOU are alone & at a date site)
Anyways...
yous asked..
I replied..
Now let me get back to surfin'n these personals
for some gal I can trick..er.. I mean find to be mine..
Take Care & Stay Safe..
///- SoldierByte -\\\
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OCT-21-06
19:4:9
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Forum: Christian Singles Member Surveys
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Submitted Anonymously
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I remarried my ex after I thought the Lord had told me to give him another chance. We married first, before either of us had given our lives to Jesus. We met in A.A. and got pregnant. I had been clean and sober and celebit for 5 yrs. He was maybe clean, maybe not, now that I look back, but none the less we got married. We had a son. Our first boy after he had 2 grown girls and I had 1. Our little boy died right after his 2nd birthday. He contracted a bacterial blood infection, almost like menengitis.
The ex had already been clearly using drugs, as he was not able to keep his business, was never where he said he would be, and lots of suspicious activity going on whenever I wasn't home. I had started attending a Vineyard church while our son was still alive. My husband thought it was great that his little family attended church, but he used that time to do his thing. It was really tough. I never wanted to come home from church on Sundays, as it was like going straight from heaven right into hell. After our son went to be with the Lord, we had a good 2 week repreve from the insanity. We prayed and greived for almost a solid two weeks, then it started all over again. So we divorced when I felt that my life was in jepordy as there where very wicked people coming to my home to do their dealings with the husband. I gave him the option, we even seperated for 6 months, but he just got worse. 2 months after our divorce,I got saved and contacted the ex to ask that he would get clean. He went into a Christian recovery center for 6 months. He was baptised at the Baptist church, seemed to love his new life, so we remarried. It only lasted 8 months. He started drinking openly and using crack in secret. He had stopped going to church and loved me to go still, just like before. When I came home after a Wed. night prayer meeting, he physically assaulted me. I went to the police the next morning, went to a womens shelter, and had him arrested. By the time it finally came to trial, he had already assaulted his girlfriend and even with both of us to testify, he was only given probation and ordered to go to anger management. Some of our Christian friends had seen him and tried to help, but to no avail. So I had divorced him the second time after only 8 months. This was all 2 1/2 yrs ago and I just went to get the order of protection reinstated for another 2 yrs. as he is trying to come around again, but he is still clearly using. I hate it that the scriture seems to be so true for him, that "seven more, even worse than the first will move in". Still yet I pray for his true salvation. But through all of this the Lord has shown Himmself mighty and therefore I have found a love who will never betray me, In Christ Jesus.
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JUL-6-06
10:19:53
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Submitted Anonymously
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Amen brother to everything that you said. The Lord is willing to forgive all of us for our sins. So, who is man to judge us because afterall, God paid the price for all or our sin. Blessings and peace to you.
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JUL-6-06
10:17:25
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Submitted Anonymously
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I liked your response, you were open honest about the circumstances of your divorce. It happen through no fault of your own and with biblical basis for you moving on. Now God is able to do the rest. Blessing to you and yours.
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JUN-20-06
13:6:55
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onesnowflake
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I too am divorced but not for lack of trying. My ex kept a secret from me for along time and when he was served court papers charging him, he could not handle it. First he had an affair and started drinking and staying away from home so for the next 2 yrs I tried to handle it best I could. Then I gave him an option quit the affair or I leave. He dropped the other woman but was not happy so from then till 2001 he lived a life of pure unhappy feelings and I tried with God's help to be the wife the Bible talks about in Proverbs. He said I was doing everything right but he was not happy and moved out in 2001. Shortly to move in with another woman. I prayed that God would bring him around and back to being the husband I married but it was not to be. So in April of 2004 I filed for divorce. It was a struggle to do for me but I felt with alot of prayer and asking God to guide me it was the right thing to do. So yes it is hard to see people as divorce but we have our reasons of why we are divorced and some of it is not our chosing but our ex partners chosing.I would have stayed married if my ex had not left me and would have trusted God to work out the rest but it was not to be. So ask before judging us who are divorced, Please.
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