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SEP-14-06
9:32:47
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Amen! It is not for us to judge another. The Bible does not condone this behavior as we know. Bit who is to say what is just.
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SEP-10-06
9:19:16
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Forum: Prayer Requests and Answers
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BettyBaby1
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I do not understand why people say such things. They do not know the heart of the man, or the heart of God, He does not send us to hell when we die, He does not send us to heaven when we die, That is when the resurrection of the dead shall come.
None of us know the heart of another, what is there only God does, and Jesus is our sin bearer. Are we so perfect that we don't make mistakes. Our own hearts condemn us, our judge is God not man. Our advocate is Jesus. The ole devil is the accuser of the people. He says that on one can keep God's ways and laws, He says that God is not trustworthy. We are not on trial here, God is, and He is trustworthy of all that He has done and He will be vindicated.
We know the end and the ole devil is fighting to get us to distrust God. He wants all of us to mistrust God.
So, we are to quit judging one another and let God do His work in our hearts and lives, by His Holy Spirit and trust Him with our all.
Take it all to Jesus in prayer and let Him cleanse this what others have said about your friend. We do not know the man's heart, yes, it is a sin, but we are all sinners in need of a Savior. Whatever leave in His trustworthy hands, not mans.
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SEP-10-06
6:52:55
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Forum: Prayer Requests and Answers
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You and your friends family are in my prayers. I can only imagine what you go through. Even if a lot disagree with me, but I think there is hope for him to be in heaven. If he did not kill himself just to get "the easy way out", but of serious mental conditions, then I believe our god of mercie looks what was in his heart. I believe that God would not let his children go, just because there mental issue didn't let them react a normal way anymore. Only God knows what is in our hearts, so I believe that it is not our right to say who goes to hell and who goes to heaven. The bible tells us what will make us go to hell and what to heaven. But like I say I don't believe for my personal view, that God would send one of his children to hell because his mind was ill (serious depression), especially if there was a problem with the medication, which was handled wrong and made his mind clouded. All I can say for sure is that God loves you and he has placed brothers and sisters around you to help you through your time of grieving. If you ever fell like you need to write your feelings off your chest then you know who I am and you can trust me that it will stay between us. But trust me, God doesn't want you to feel alone and hurt, so accept it if there are people who are trying to lift you up in this hard and trying time. God bless you my sister. I pray for strengh and healing.
Your sister through Christ,
Tina
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SEP-9-06
18:54:10
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Forum: Prayer Requests and Answers
Suicide of close friend
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I was in shock all day yesterday when I found out that one of the most dedicated, strong, Christian friends I had since 1983 had died of suicide by means of anxiety pills and alcohol ingestion. He had traveled a long road with his wife and two now grown daughters and the enemy of our souls finally took him out. This happened in 2004. I had been living in Orlando 5 years and out of Wisconsin in the area where he and his wife lived for 4years before that and had keep somewhat in touch by phone but had no idea anything was wrong. His wife and I had play telephone tag the same year he died and somehow I'd lost her number and found out earlier this summer when noticying his mothers obituary she had been preceded in death by 2 sons one of them my friend. I had called one of his family members to try get his wifes number so I could find out what happened to him and there was a message on my home phone which I hardly ever use my son does from her from the end of June. I called it yesterday and she told me how he had this horrible anxiety condition but he didn't like the pills because they made him feel not himself so he began to self medicate with alcohol until when combining it with alcohol he killed himself. He was creamated so I will never see him again. I blame myself for not taking better care of my friendships and for not treating them as precious as they are. This was as much a shock to me because of the confidence and power and authority this man had always walked in as if YOu were to tell me the Pope was shooting heroin. Right now I am raw, crying often and many believe he has gone to hell. I don't because if he was so sick he did that he wasn't in his right mind. After telling me all that occured his wife told me she was being remarried Friday, Sept.15. I know my friend would have wanted this for her, but they were so in love for over 20 yrs. everytime they tried to talk about it they would both cry and then stop talking about it. I don't even have a picture of him to remember him by and don't feel like this is the appropriate time to ask his wife. She is in another state and large city and invited me to the wedding but I am glad I can't go because I'm in grieving i think. She will be up here where i live with her new husband on Oct. 18 so I don't know what by then. I hate the devil and I hate that people think m is in hell even his long time school friend who did his memorial serivce. I feel like someone is cutting my heart up and i don't understand it. i feel mad at god. please pray for me.
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